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September 2011

Reblog this if you have been a victim of rape.

feministdykeslut:

fromonesurvivortoanother:

journeythruyourlife:

I am a SURVIVOR of rape. I strive to live my life as such rather than identify myself as a victim. Just one word can mean so much! You lived through it, and thus, you are a survivor even if it doesn’t always feel that way. Know that you are not alone <3

i am a survivor of sexual abuse. not a victim

SURVIVOR.

Aug 31, 201198 notes
#rape #sexual abuse #sexual assault
omfg

i love my followers.

seriously. you guys just enlightened me. I DIDN’T EVEN KNOW I HAD THAT BUTTON.

Aug 31, 20113 notes
embarrassing computer question time

how do i take a screenshot? (PC, Windows 7)

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#chubby #fashion inspiration #plus size #street style #fatshion
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#feminism #feminist #femme #slutwalk #radical #poster #sign #queer #queer femme #lesbian #Bisexual
I am pro-abortion.

slutrevolution:

I am pro-choice. This does not make me a supporter of killing, it makes a supporter of a person’s right to choose what they do with their body.

-snap-

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#MONIF C #Plus Size #plus size fashion #curvy #voluptuous #big sexy #fatshion #fashion
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#huzzah! #comics #books #doodles #smut #filth #nsfw #adult stuff! #porn
I feel so bad about myself lately. I am trying to force myself not to hate my body, but it's so much more than being a size 14. It's that I feel greedy, and weak, and like a failure. I don't know why I'm telling you this, I guess just because you're bigger and beautiful and seem to not hate yourself and I wish I could be like you.

aw, sweets, I am really glad you reached out to me.

We all have days like this (I am actually going through one right now). The trick is to pull ourselves out of this self-loathing space. I do it a few ways. first, i reach out to friends. An affirmation from a friend can really help.  I also do some self-care.  For me, it’s taking a bubble bath or napping. Sometimes it’s working out or taking a walk. 

I don’t know you, but I want you to know that I have been there.  I really appreciate your compliments, and for the most part they are true. But sometimes I feel like a failure.  I am lucky to have people and things in my life to help me realize it’s not true.

I love you anon :) Please feel free to talk to me anytime, on or off anon. I usually do private messages anyway. <3

Aug 31, 2011

August 2011

Regarding that picture of a girl in a dress who called herself big: what was wrong with the note that called her beautiful? They didn't say "it's Ok, you're STILL beautiful," which would imply that being big is a set-back. Just curious on your take. Haha I'm such a polite little anon today...

You ARE polite anon :) Which is good because I don’t publish rude ones

I found it offensive that she didn’t want to wear the dress because it made her look big. I also don’t like that in order to make her feel better she was told that she wasn’t big, and that she had the right kind of curves.

Again, people can say whatever they want on their blogs. But I don’t like that on mine, especially when I work to love myself. (not that it’s hard) :P

Aug 31, 2011
Aug 31, 201145 notes
#fatshion #fat fashion #pride #qpoc #fat love #fat brown love is revolutionary
To people who think it's ok to ask someone their "birth" name

fuck you.

Aug 31, 201126 notes
As per your dating fat folks question: I am currently with a fellow fat lady (we wear the same size! If I ever want to wear butch drag I can raid her closet) and have dated quite a few other fat folks in the past. I think it would be really weird if someone was super pro-FA, but didn't date fatties. But then, in all my years of dating (which is a lot, because I'm old), I've never encountered anyone, fat or thin, that's cared about that sort of thing. Maybe I'm lucky? Or oblivious? I don't know

omg i love your relationship and i’m not even in it!!

Aug 31, 20112 notes
"idk who this is but i love hir." YOU DON'T KNOW WHO BETH DITTO IS?! :(((

OMG THAT’S BETH DITTO

failllllllllllllllllllllll

I definitely did not recognize her at all!

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#Beth ditto #curvy #plus size #brit awards
Found this dress while unpacking my clothes...

intendedthing:

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it’s cute but it makes me look kinda big and i haven’t had a reason to wear it yet :|

I found this very problematic. Especially the note “you’re not big, you’re beautiful!” Not something I want on my dash.

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Regarding your post asking if anyone has dated anyone above a size 12. Its so sad that people can be so ignorant that they'd prefer to deprive themselves of (possibly) love because of a pant size. I, personally have dated several people size 12 or more. My mother is also heavy. If someone doesn't want to date you because of your size GOOD they are a shitty person anyway and you don't need people like that in your life! Keep on rockin on :)

I HAVE to publish this because I love this (and you!)

Aug 31, 2011
yay someone agrees with my person post.

I agree with most of your posts! lol

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