February 2012
of course tumblr decides to fuck up when I create...
Tumblr: “Oh Emma, you have a new blog with like a million new messages? Awesome. I’M GOING TO NOT WORK ALL NIGHT.”
Emma: “Well then.”
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Are you a femme who needs a mentor?
Are you new to identifying as a femme? Closeted? Young? Isolated? Or just need extra support?
Femmeffirmations is a BRAND NEW blog dedicated to finding established femme mentors for other femmes who need community.
All you need to do to request a mentor is send a message to the blog (link here). In your request, just let us know what you’re looking for in a mentor (identity markers,...
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Anonymous asked: What's a butch femme?
January 2012
omg y'all
I just sent 100 of the same message.
wooooooo
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Anonymous asked: I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I...
I literally CANNOT transfer all of the mentor...
So I am sending you all this message. Sorry for the form message!
Thank you so much for your interest in being a Femme Mentor!!
Due to the sheer number of people who have contacted me, I cannot transfer all of these messages over to the new blog myself. (Here is a link to the new blog!)
Could you copy the message you wrote and send it to the new blog? You can send it through the ask or...
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Anonymous asked: can butch femmes be included in your mentoring thingy?
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Dresses Galore
I just added some of my favorite dresses for sale at the Femme Closet.
:*3
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paintastory asked: Emma, how do you stay focused on work? I have so much homework to do tonight, and I don't want to touch it. :/
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repo-thedj asked: You, are a beautiful WOMAN! May someday, somebody treat you like the queen you are!
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repo-thedj asked: STAY YOURSELF! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!
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So there are two types of fat messages I hate
And they are opposites, and yet really similar.
The first: Concern Trolls.
“I’m glad you’re happy with your body, but aren’t you worried about your health?”
“Confidence is great, but what about being healthy?”
etc etc etc.
The second: Fat Police.
“You’re not fat, you’re only a size 16.”
“You’re not fat unless...
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Anonymous asked: I'm asking this through anon, because I want to make sure that this would be right for me. Will there be womyn of color mentees? What about bisexuals? What about people who've experienced sexual violence? Can we stay anon throughout the entire process, only revealing ourself to our mentor?
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Femme Mentorship Blog
I made it!
It is not finished yet (obviously) but I will work on it tonight! Please follow and spread the word :)
Femmeffirmations.tumblr.com
The concensus seems to be: NEW BLOG
I think I am going to call it: Femmeffirmations!
(get it - femme affirmations?)
Does that sound good?
remember that loan I applied for, and needed?
Apparently I’m not enrolled in enough credits.
I hate my life.
So I have to be honest
I was slightly unprepared for the amount of mentors/mentees I would receive.
So it may take a bit longer to get everything set up.
In the meantime, I have a few questions to help me make things.
Do you want this to be its own blog, or just a page on my blog?
Do you want all of the mentors to be posted and then mentees can pick who they’d like, or would you like to be matched up?
If...
crying is a fucking workout
seriously
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a(broad): Week 2. →
mylifeasabroad:
One week into school and the only funny story I have is not actually funny, but mortifyingly embarrassing. It involves me pooping in a public restaurant.
And now that I come to think of it, it didn’t even take place after school started. It was the day before.
I was studying (yeah, I guess I do…
things that make me happy usually include Myriah
“you don’t want to put glitter on the vulva. that’s a bad idea.”
– typical BFF convo
I fucking love my bff
love love love her
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accidentally-on-purpose asked: Awe, she really is quite the looker! I appreciate the compliment! Way to make a boy blush :P
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Anonymous asked: (tw: ed) thank you so much for writing so publicly about your disordered eating. i have a lot of issues with my relationship with food, and i feel so hard so much of what you're saying and it feels so good to know that other people are dealing with it as well and they are okay. <3
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raggedyanndy asked: OK WHAT THE HELL 'cause I just started my period last night, too
don't ever apologize for posting pictures of...
heartblink:
vanityisasocialconstruct:
femmesandfamily:
Fill your blog with your own face
Show off your arms, thighs, ass, shoulders
Make pages and pages of your own teeth and hair
Dedicate space to loving the cracks in your lips and the chewed parts of your fingers
And if you are called vain, then you have succeeded
In getting others to notice
How fucking beautiful and important you...
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Anonymous asked: [TW: eating disorders] I also struggle with disordered eating and have struggled with it most of my life. I hear a lot of myself in the posts you make about how you're struggling and while I guess I don't have any advice, I want you to know you aren't alone. I hope that you are doing well today.
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softpinkchaos-deactivated201203 asked: Do you mind if I ask you about your diva cup? How long have you used it? Do you like it? Do you have any problems with it? Have you tried using any other brands of menstrual cups? Hope I'm not being too prying. <3
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engmtc asked: i just started my cycle yesterday...
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the awkward moment when you wrote a whole post...
and then spend an hour at home before you remember you need to put it in.
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quotingtheartist replied to your post: omg menstruation twins.
Just wanted to let you know that you, me, my 3 roomates are cycling together. Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeird
SO MUCH CYCLING
I feel like we should start a cycling club, except people would think it had to do with bikes or something
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Food update
tw disordered eating
So whenever I post these I always lose a bunch of followers. Which is fine - I know people need to protect themselves and even though it’s under a cut it can be hard to ignore. I also understand that some people don’t care how some random girl in tumblr is feeling about her body and food.
But I feel like it’s important to document these things in my life...
