March 2012
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I think it's funny when I lose followers after...
um….what kind of blog did you think this was?
get ready for more
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likeapendulum asked: You are so gorgeous!
I bought no clothing today!
Yay for Emma winning at not spending money!!
I did, however,try on everything and look babely (per usual)
Kelsey and I look hot in a size small shirt
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J is such a hottie
queertrans-boy-lovingatheist is a babe
correct me if I'm wrong
But white people shouldn’t be using “k but you wrong doe”
Especially when it’s not about racism.
Right? I could totally be wrong, but that was the impression I have.
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If you saw me on the street, would you know I'm...
cuz if not, what’s wrong with you?
February 2012
smalloli:
I have never said I don’t wanna be called a dyke. My tongue bar has the word itself on it, fucking idiots.
I do not ‘objectify’ myself. I am PROUD of my body, my tits, my bum, my fucking face, despite society telling me I shouldn’t be.
I can take as many fucking photos of myself as I like, you know why? ‘Cause I took them, I consent to them. No one is making me show my body off, I...
saminal:
b-says:
goforthandagitate:
unknowablewoman:
saminal:
getting pretty tired of men objectifying fat women as a fetish and thinking they’re helping
word.
Fetishizing anyone is not helping, it makes more problems.
So let me get this straight. Men who claim fat women are unattractive make women feel bad. Then, you get men who like them, and not ALL of them are fetishists (I’d...
fandomfolkpunkandfeelings-deact asked: Also a lot of the stigma against ultra-thinness is based off of the assumption that they must be anorexic, the stigmatization of which is based on ableism towards mental illness, not lack of thin privilege.
Anonymous asked: Do you think there is a point where you are so 'thin' where it isnt a privilege anymore? When you are at a stage of it being unhealthy and you are ridiculed for it instead of appreciated? I would just like to hear your opinion! :) x
talldarkbishoujo asked: Speaking as a thin person, Kate Harding and her contributors at Shapely Prose probably did more to wake me up to thin privilege than anything else. The whole site is mandatory reading as far as I'm concerned. There is a post called "On Thin Privilege" that is a good place to start, I'd link it but tumblr won't let me in an ask.
definitelynotellen asked: Thin privilege speaking here: Our problems have absolutely no place in fat problem conversations. It's apples and oranges. We have nothing to contribute to the conversation. End of story.
Femmes and Family: thatangryblackgrrrl: Femmes and... →
thatangryblackgrrrl:
thatangryblackgrrrl:
Femmes and Family: Telling you about your thin privilege ≠ being “jealous” because “you’re so pretty.”
shakethecobwebs:
If that’s honestly your first response for being called out for thin-privilege denial, you’re only furthering the point. “Thin” is not…
obviously our experiences are different and i am not trying to derail you in any way. but it...
thin privilege =/= all thin people are bad
just like
straight privilege =/= all straight people are bad
male privilege =/= all males are bad
etc etc etc
But it does mean:
You need to listen to the people you have privilege over. You need to not derail conversations about your privilege. You need to understand that thinking you don’t have privilege IS A PRIVILEGE.
thatangryblackgrrrl:
Femmes and Family: Telling you about your thin privilege ≠ being “jealous” because “you’re so pretty.”
shakethecobwebs:
If that’s honestly your first response for being called out for thin-privilege denial, you’re only furthering the point. “Thin” is not synonymous with “beautiful” and no matter how shitty it is to be told to “eat a...
Telling you about your thin privilege ≠ being...
shakethecobwebs:
If that’s honestly your first response for being called out for thin-privilege denial, you’re only furthering the point. “Thin” is not synonymous with “beautiful” and no matter how shitty it is to be told to “eat a sandwich,” it is still not the same as “go die you fat fuck.” Body-shaming is always wrong, but “you’re too skinny!” can’t even compare with the systemic and...
really excited to go shopping with Kelsey and J
there will be pictures.
oh, there will be pictures.
This is why it's none of your business to tell...
whims-of-a-feminist:
Because it isn’t your body.
raggedyanndy:
honestandunapologetic replied to your post: oH GOD I JUST NOTICED HE USED THE WORD “LADIES” …
you hate the word “ladies”??? nooo i love that word…i’m so used to b/c we always used it in volleybally. infinitely better than “female,” in my opinion, and i prefer it over “girl” or “woman” in certain contexts
When men use the word “ladies,” it just skeeves me out. It’s so often a...
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why are you in all my nightmares
you are not my knight anymore
30 Day Femme Challenge: Day 3
detectivepunchymchitsthings:
Day 3: What is your biggest Femme problem?
I’m too effeminate (and also tiny and babyfaced) to be taken seriously as a man. But I’m also too much of a man to be taken seriously as a femme. My identities erase each other.
that’s awful. ~femme solidarity~
You can be the manliest femme you want to be <3
trigger warning (self injury)
repetition-is-holy:
4 years, 2 months, 24 days clean.
It still seems like an impossible task.
Currently, 8 months.
~recovery solidarity~
Imagine going down on a girl:
girlargueswithtree:
tyleroakley:
thechrismonster:
NO OFFENSE LADIES, IT’S JUST NOT FOR ME.
literally just read that bell hooks quote about sexism in homosexuals. hmmm
ninja edit: ok Tyler changed his statement but still…
……………..
no offense ladies, but vaginas are super gross
not to mention not all girls have vaginas
but whatever, BECAUSE I AM GAY AND...
remember when i was cute?
sometimes I miss dark haired, size 18 me
:/
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came to a realization
tw ED, sexual assault, consent
so….I sort of had a mini break down after that anon message. Luckily J was over and he was amazing (as always).
But I think I came to a pretty intense realization that is scary and idk if it’s true but it felt true in the moment and…ok.
I think a part of my ED has to do with wanting to change my body so that people won’t find me...
artisticgoldfish said: They deserve that “fuck you”.
kylathegreat said: ForGET these fools, babe.
notafraidofruins said: ...
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madisonkerr asked: I love you. You make me proud to be a sassy vain fat goddess! I have been following for so long and I can't believe it's taken me so long to express my love!! :) (if it says I just followed you, I accidentally unfollowed why trying to send you fan mail! My sassy fat fingers!)
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Anonymous asked: As a bigger queer transdude with an ED, I know how you feel. I just want you to know you think you're beautiful and you are inspiring.
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Anonymous asked: How can you be 100% about body acceptance (including fat acceptance) yet have a potential ED? I suffer from an ED but, in my mind, I don't see how it's possible for the two things to coexist.
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piggytits asked: thanks for putting blogger responsibility into perspective for me. i've always been strict about legality and age, etc. (not including children on my tumblr even in movie stills or funny gifs) but your comment about how you want to remain off porn and bbw tumblrs made it click for me that when you reblog someone's image, you are associating that person with your content without their...
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food problems [tw ED]
I think I might be hungry, but I can’t eat.
And by can’t I really mean I don’t want to eat.
I also really want J to take my scale out of my house, but I don’t know if I can handle not weighing myself everyday.
Ugh. Today is a down day.
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hotgirlfqtj12 asked: hey there wanna talk on yahoo messenger? My name is sweetkissesgirl47
J trying to read a poem to me
J: WHY AM I MAKING THIS SO AWKWARD?!
Me: BECAUSE YOU'RE AWKWARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1