Anonymous asked Hi, I want to get a little tattoo, and want the venus sign (but the heart shaped version). I was just wondering, as I think you might be the most knowledgable person I follow on this subject, are there any negative connotations? Have there been any discussions about it, such as the fact it pertains to the gender binary? Please share you views! xxx

I have no clue.  Followers?

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Anonymous asked hey femma, I've recently realized I'm queer and I'm not sure what to do. Because I'm femme and "straight passing," queer hotties often overlook me thinking they'd just be some kind of experiment for me. How can I be taken seriously in the queer community while still presenting the way I like? Similarly, I'm not sure when/how/if I should come out to my family. I've never had a serious relationship with a woman/non binary person, so should I wait until it comes up or do it now?

Coming out is a personal choice.  The only right time is when you feel it’s right.

As far as being taken seriously - femme invisibility is real and frustrating   Unfortunately, we cannot control how others see us.  All we can do is be our amazing femme selves and fuck anyone who doesn’t see it.

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Anonymous asked I was actually asking you about femmephobia because I believe this is something I've experienced lately, but I've had others tell me I'm wrong/ it doesn't exist. I'm just not clear on what it is exactly.

Femmephobia is being oppressed, marginalized, excluded, sexualized, and dehumanized for being femme.

It can be tied to sexism, racism, classism, and other oppressions.

People who are not femme CANNOT experience it.

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Anonymous asked Are asexual people oppressed for being asexual?

I’m not asexual, so I am not an authority on the subject.

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