Anonymous asked can i ask for some advice? my girlfriend and i broke up but decided to be friends with benefits, but i still have feelings and she doesn't. so it makes me feel awful but i don't want to stop. the idea of stopping having intimacy is even worse than how it hurts to be close with her when i know she doesn't feel the same way anymore. help?

The answer seems pretty obvious to me, but that’s mostly because I have been in a similar situation.

Stop sleeping together.

The sexual gratification is not worth the emotional pain.  And honestly, if she knows that you still have feelings and she doesn’t, she shouldn’t be sleeping with you.  Have you told her you still have feelings?

I have been in your ex’s position, and made the same mistake.

I urge you to think of your own health.  How would you feel if she starts a relationship with someone else?  How will you feel when she develops feelings for someone else?

It’s really important to protect you and your feelings. <3

Posted on: 22nd February 2012 - 1 noteReblog

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